PinnedMember-onlyRead This to Kickstart Your Medium Account!New here? Cool! Allow me to give you a hand with helpful tips and tricks to help you hit those milestones! — Allow me to introduce myself. I am a married mom of two who loves to write. (I’m not kidding. My fingers don’t stop, once I get started.) Instead of going on forever about myself, check out this autobiographical article that I wrote here. So back in 2018, I learned about…Medium6 min read
Published in About Me Stories·PinnedAbout Me — Vanessa Hinojosa“Where Did You Come From? Where Did You Go?” I was born in McAllen, Texas back in 1987. (Good grief, I’m old.) We moved around a lot while growing up. In Texas, we had lived in Irving, twice. In California, we’d lived in Anaheim a few times and Corona for a very short time. …About Me5 min read
6 days agoMember-onlyIs This… Terrible Twos?I remember pretty vividly that my firstborn was much worst than my current toddler. — 6 Months Ago… Oh no, I thought. It’s coming. Am I ready? Is my husband ready? Within the next six months, I started seeing my toddler throw some crazy fits. Sometimes it was because he didn’t want to be carried because being on the loose was much more for him. Other times, it…Parenting5 min read
6 days agoI Lost Followers?This is a first for me. — I just wanted to write a short piece. Anyway…. We’re only 3 days into August and somehow I’ve managed to lose a few followers. Interesting. The only other time that’s happened is when I first started writing on Medium EONS ago. I’m pretty sure it’s because I only had 2…Writing2 min read
Jul 31Member-onlyOne Week Later…Over a week ago, I had written about starting over in order to organize my daily life. I literally went from chaos to more-or-less smooth sailing in that amount of time. I’ve figured out how to save myself from the chaos of ADHD. — I wrote a piece called Square One to talk about how I needed to reset myself in order to function with efficacy. Well, it worked. Mind you, I’m working between two apps to make it work, but it WORKS!!!Adhd3 min read
Jul 18Square OneMy ADHD has been throwing me off quite a bit, lately. So I had to go back to what’s worked for me in the past. — I went to see a friend of mine, recently. We hadn’t seen each other in…. Wow. I don’t think we’ve seen each other since college! Our lives are a little different than they used to be. She’s married and loves her job and she now has a little baby boy…Adhd4 min read
Jul 13Member-onlyThree Years of HomeschoolI used to think homeschooled kids were weird until I started homeschooling one of my kids. The world opened up for us, as did my eyes. — I originally wrote about this last year about why I started homeschooling and honestly at this point, he’s thriving! Prologue He started with his fears of not being “as smart as other kids” and running out of time to do his work. He didn’t test well and he was constantly crying…Education4 min read
Jul 10Member-onlyA Step Back in TimeWho knew that visiting my mother would be so… cringy. — Today was the day that we’d bring our older son back home. As helpful as he was to his grandmother this week, he was slipping in his schoolwork. Even my mother had agreed that he should go home. “Your grades are more important than helping me, papito,” she’d told him…Memories5 min read
Jul 7A Job Without the CommitmentIt’s real. Depending on your location, you can make a few hundred to a couple of thousand dollars a month! — I homeschool a preteen and mother a toddler. I have housework and a constant low amount of energy. I may not have time for even a part-time job, but I do have time for this. I was scrolling TikTok one day and came across a lady who goes live often…Side Hustle3 min read
Jul 2Member-onlyCheap Travel Spot or Hidden Gem?After living here for so long and reading about it in an online magazine, I figured it was time for me to write about it. — While I attended high school, all I’d ever heard about were the parties. While I was in college, I’d heard about the out-of-town college folks our locals would hook up with. As an adult, I started hearing something a bit different. It wasn’t the parties or the waterpark; it was…Cities6 min read